
Finding calm in the chaos – our guide to protecting your peace of mind, from puneripages.in
By Prashant for PuneriPages.in
Ever feel like the world is shouting at you? Every scroll, every ping, every headline is another tragedy, another outrage. It’s no wonder you feel drained. I’ve been there too—heart racing over news I can’t change, mind buzzing when I’m trying to sleep. But I’ve learned something: your peace of mind isn’t a luxury. It’s your foundation. And you can protect it.
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Why It’s So Hard to Look Away
Our brains are survival machines. They’re wired to notice threats, thanks to something called negativity bias. That made sense when the threats were lions or storms—but now the danger is a flood of bad news on your phone. And the truth is, media companies know it. They feed us the alarming stuff because it keeps us hooked.
Knowing that isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s your first step in taking back the remote control of your attention.
The Circle of Control Trick
Here’s a tool I use: the Stoic Circle of Control.
- Inside the Circle: My thoughts, my actions, my words, how much news I consume.
- Outside the Circle: Global events, strangers’ choices, the 24/7 news cycle.
My peace comes from staying inside my circle and letting the rest drift past like clouds.
My Three-Layered Defense Strategy
This isn’t theory—it’s what actually helps me keep my head clear.
1. Curate Your Information Diet (My Shield)
- Pick a News Time: I check the news once in the morning, never before bed.
- Kill the Buzz: No breaking news notifications—ever.
- Choose Your Sources: I go looking for facts, not whatever the algorithm shoves at me.
- Balance It Out: I follow a couple of “good news” accounts to remind myself the world isn’t only on fire.
2. Strengthen Your Inner World (My Fortress)
- Ground Yourself: I use the “5-4-3-2-1” trick: five things I see, four I touch, three I hear, two I smell, one I taste.
- Gratitude Journal: Three small wins or joys, every single day.
- Offline Moments: A walk with no phone. Cooking without music or TV. Letting my senses have the stage.
3. Take Small, Real Action (My Antidote)
- Start Small: I can’t fix the whole world, but I can help my corner of it.
- Examples: A bag of groceries for a neighbor. Donating to the local food bank. Mentoring someone younger.
One Last Thing
Some days, I still get pulled into the noise. That’s okay. This is a practice, not a perfect scorecard. Be gentle with yourself. Protect your peace like you would protect someone you love—because you are someone you love.
And remember: a calmer mind isn’t selfish. It’s what lets you live well and help others without burning out.