Overloaded with expectations, Indian students face pressure that often goes unnoticed. Photo for puneripages.in
By Prashant for PuneriPages.in
Take a look out your window on any given weekday around 3 PM. You’ll see them. Small figures in crisp uniforms, their shoulders slumped forward, not from exhaustion, but from the literal weight of the backpacks they carry. These aren’t just bags filled with books; they are sacks filled with our ambitions, our anxieties, and the crushing weight of a future that has already been scheduled to the minute.
And as you watch them walk, not towards a park or a playground, but towards the next tuition class, the next coding lesson, the next exam prep, you have to ask yourself a terrifying question:
Are we witnessing the greatest, most silent heist of our generation—the theft of childhood itself?
The recent article on mypunepulse.com, “No Time to Be a Child,” doesn’t just report on a trend; it sounds an alarm that has been ringing for years, and we seem to have grown deaf to it. This isn’t about one or two over-achieving families. This is a systemic crisis, an assembly line we have built with the best of intentions, but with the most devastating of consequences.
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The Symptoms of a Stolen Childhood
This isn’t a hidden problem. The symptoms are all around us, disguised as “good parenting” and “building a strong foundation.”
The Calendar of a CEO: Look at a typical 10-year-old’s schedule. School from 8 AM to 3 PM. A quick lunch. Tuition from 4 PM to 6 PM. Homework from 7 PM to 9 PM. Weekends are for competitive exam prep. There is no white space. There is no room for boredom, for aimless wandering, for the unstructured, glorious “doing nothing” that is the very soil in which creativity and self-discovery grow.
The Burden of a Scholar: The school bag is a perfect metaphor. It’s physically heavy, yes, but it’s symbolically heavier. It represents a system that believes knowledge is something to be carried, not something to be discovered. It values memorization over curiosity, scores over skills.
The Echo Chamber of Fear: We, as parents and a society, are running a fear-driven ecosystem. Fear that our child will fall behind. Fear that they won’t get into the “right” college. Fear that they won’t be “successful.” And in our frantic race to build a failure-proof future for them, we are denying them the very experiences—like failure, boredom, and free play—that build a resilient, happy human being.
What is the Real Cost?
The cost isn’t just a lack of playtime. It’s far deeper and more corrosive.
We are raising a generation that knows how to answer any question but has forgotten how to ask “Why?”
We are building children who can solve complex equations but are paralyzed by simple emotional conflicts because they’ve never had the time to navigate unstructured social interactions.
We are creating young adults with perfect resumes but fragile minds, where any deviation from the pre-planned path feels like a catastrophic failure. We are trading their mental peace for our bragging rights.
The Rebellion We Urgently Need
This is not a problem that can be solved by government policy alone. The change has to start with us, in our homes, with a quiet and determined rebellion against the culture of overload.
What if we started a different kind of race?
- What if, instead of asking “How much did you score?”, we asked, “What did you learn today that made you curious?”
- What if we deliberately scheduled “do-nothing” time into our children’s calendars?
- What if we celebrated their courage to try a new sport and fail, more than their ability to get 100% on a test?
The choice is ours. We can continue down this path, creating a generation of well-trained, high-achieving, deeply unhappy adults. Or we can stop, take a breath, and give our children back the one thing they cannot get in any tuition class: their childhood.
Let’s give them back their scraped knees, their aimless afternoons, their “useless” hobbies, and their freedom to simply be. Because a child who has learned how to be happy will always find a way to be successful. But the reverse is never guaranteed.
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