"A thoughtful look at workplace dynamics in Pune: As office hours get longer, relationships grow closer. Photo by PuneriPages.in."
By Prashant for PuneriPages.in
PUNE, July 4, 2025 — Let’s talk about something we usually whisper about but rarely bring out in the open: office affairs in pune. Specifically, in Pune’s buzzing corporate corridors where most of us spend more waking hours than we do at home. Lately, a quiet shift is taking place—personal relationships at work are becoming more common, and not always in ways people are ready for.
Now, before you assume this is going to be some juicy gossip column, hold up. I wanted to understand this myself, because as someone who’s worked in, around, and reported on Pune’s corporate circles, I’ve seen this happening more and more. But I didn’t want to speculate. I wanted facts. So I reached out to experts—psychologists, HR consultants, and legal professionals—to break this down.
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The High-Pressure Environment
Let’s be honest—work isn’t just about KPIs and client calls anymore. If you’re working 9 to 10 hours a day in Hinjawadi, Kharadi, or Baner, your colleagues become your second family. You grab chai together, rant about managers, meet deadlines, and celebrate small wins.
Dr. Alka Deshmukh, a relationship psychologist here in Pune, summed it up best: “It’s not love at first sight; it’s empathy at deadline hour.” The long hours and shared stress form a base for emotional bonding. And when that bonding crosses the line into something more, things can get complicated—fast.
The View from HR: Policy vs. Reality
I had a chat with Rajeev Kulkarni, a senior HR consultant who’s worked with several top IT firms in Pune. I asked him straight: Are workplace relationships actually becoming more frequent?
“Yes,” he said. “But the bigger issue isn’t the relationship itself. It’s how people handle it.”
Most companies allow consensual relationships, especially if they don’t involve a reporting line. But Rajeev explained that once things turn sour or start impacting team dynamics, the situation quickly escalates. “We’ve handled cases where favoritism was perceived, even when it wasn’t intended,” he added. “It divides teams.”
The Legal Minefield
Just to make sure we’re not missing anything, I reached out to Advocate Meera Jagtap, who specializes in labor law.
“People think office relationships are private,” she said. “But they’re not, especially when things go wrong.”
Meera broke it down: if an affair turns into a harassment complaint, the POSH Act gets triggered. Even consensual relationships can lead to legal troubles if there’s a power imbalance involved.
Her advice? “Document things. Know the policies. And understand that emotional boundaries matter as much as physical ones.”
The Human Cost: Beyond the Office Walls
This part really hit home for me. I mean, behind every relationship is a person dealing with emotions, confusion, maybe even guilt.
Dr. Deshmukh mentioned something powerful: “Most of these connections aren’t about romance. They’re about loneliness.”
She’s seen a sharp rise in cases of marital discord where office relationships play a part. “The emotional toll isn’t just on the people involved,” she said. “It extends to families, teams, and mental health.”
Navigating the Grey Zone: My Take + Expert Tips
Look, I’m not here to preach. I’m just someone who’s watched this culture evolve and wanted to understand it better. If you’re reading this and nodding silently, wondering where the line is—here are a few pointers we gathered from the experts:
- Read your HR manual. It matters more than you think.
- Don’t date someone in your reporting chain. Just don’t.
- If you’re already in a relationship, disclose it professionally. Transparency beats assumptions.
- Keep your behavior consistent in public and private. People notice.
- If things feel emotionally messy, talk to a counselor. There’s no shame in that.
Conclusion
This isn’t about casting judgment or taking sides. It’s about understanding a very real shift happening in Pune’s office culture. Workplace relationships are a reality, and how we navigate them—with maturity, boundaries, and empathy—will shape not just our careers but our emotional well-being too.
We live in a city that’s growing fast, where personal and professional lines blur every day. Let’s make sure we don’t lose ourselves in that blur.
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